Staying in the present moment can be tricky when we have
multiple things to juggle on a daily basis, the future glaring at us to stay on
track, and the past to color our perspective. Oftentimes, it feels like life is
coming at us from every angle, making it a little difficult to pay attention to
what’s currently going on around us. Add to this our critical internal navigation
system (aka, our inner-nag) always at the ready to keep us from looking bad or re-creating
past mistakes, and it’s a wonder we get out of bed in the morning.
But when you allow things to slow down and turn off (or
at least calm) that internal voice, have you noticed how much more enjoyable
life and relationships are? Pretty amazing, actually. Setting aside the often
ever growing to-do list, and letting go of the need to constantly keep yourself
in check allows you to truly experience each precious moment of life. Now
believe you me, I know how hard it can be to quiet the inner noise. It’s there,
but you can make peace with it.
I’m a big proponent of talking to yourself, and wonder what
kind of lunatic I must look like for doing it so often. The truth of the matter
is that the voice that attempts to guide us – no matter how misdirected – just
really want to be heard. So the trick is, listen.
Have a conversation. By doing so, you quiet the voice.
When working with clients I often refer to this as “talking
yourself off the ledge”, especially when the voice is screaming at you to jump.
For every internal screaming Mimi, there’s also the internal voice of reason,
and it’s up to us to use both as a source for moving through and out of our
past, and to plan for the future without obsessing over it.
A good analogy for this is that you wouldn’t pitch a screaming
fit back at a small child for throwing a temper tantrum, would you? That would
be pretty counterproductive. As anyone who’s had the joy of dealing firsthand
with a little darling when they go off the deep end knows, staying calm and
rational enough to see the root of the behavior is paramount for the fit to
pass.
Time to start listening to the inner-voice so it stops
tearing us down, and instead, cheers us on. That way you have the opportunity
to enjoy the moment, be present with those you love, and not “trip” on the ever
existent to-do list.
With Love.
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From Over There:
“To find value in
every interaction, no matter how seemingly mundane, is to live in present
moment. To live in present moment and experience the present moment one must
release the need for approval of others.
Approval must first
begin with self. The mind is out of present time and into self-preoccupation
when an individual feels the need to compare attributes with another. If one
values their own strengths and talents then there is no need for competition,
or ego to prove value over another, because self-value is already acknowledged.
When one is
comfortable in relationship with self, then one is comfortable in relationship
with others. When one is in this comfort range, then the availability to be
present in every moment is increased.”
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Synthesizing neuroscience, intuitive medicine, psychological and subtle energy techniques, Dr. Orloff maps the elegant relationships between our minds, bodies, spirits, and our environments. With humor and compassion, she shows you how to identify the most powerful negative emotions and how to transform them into hope, kindness, and courage. Compelling patient case-studies, stories from her on-line community and workshop participants, and from her own private life illustrate the simple, easy-to-follow action steps that you can take to cope with emotional vampires, disappointments, and rejection.
Emotional Freedom is a road map for those who are stressed out, discouraged, or overwhelmed as well as for those who are in a good emotional place but want to feel even better. As Dr. Orloff shows, each day presents opportunities for us to be heroes in our own lives: to turn away from negativity, react constructively, and seize command of any situation. Complete emotional freedom is within your grasp. To learn more about Dr. Orloff, please visit: www.drjudithorloff.com.
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